At least one party gets screwed
April 25, 2018 § 6 Comments
Our society positively celebrates and encourages fornication, to the point where any undesired consequences of fornication – even consequences to which the perpetrator has explicitly agreed ahead of time in writing – are considered merciless tyranny; the perpetrator, a victim.
At the same time, modernity views consent as what determines justice. Because of this, precisely (and only) because of the absence of consent, rape is still considered a terrible crime (as long as women are not spending millions of entertainment dollars fantasizing about it). And of course the scope of “consent” continues to expand, to the point where any foreseen or unforeseen regret for making a free choice, or any subjectively perceived pressure at all to choose one way rather than another, is thought to retroactively nullify consent.
This leads many conservatives to join forces with sexual libertines when it comes to campus rape hysteria, #metoo, and the like. Because when consensual sex that the woman later regrets is defined to be rape, at least one party to fornication – the man – suffers real consequences.